maybe i am being over-sensitive but i don't find it funny when people around me think that doing the whole, 'oh you are so gay, stop gaying around' gig is amusing. which makes lunch time conversation especially trying sometimes because it's where i want to relax but i get annoyed by how people are seized by this mad insistence to draw all sorts of boundaries and squeeze people into tiny, neat boxes for ease of classification.
this whole, 'this is the line between your table and my table, you cannot cross it!' shebang is so sophomoric, no?
which makes me very very thankful that i was in an environment which welcomed all sorts of differences, well most anyway. of course we judged as much as any 15-16 year olds did in a progesterone and oestrogen filled space but i haven't found a place with that capacity for acceptance. thank you my friends for being your neurotic, strange selves. it's good to know that even though one can never be quite normal, one still belongs somewhere.
nostalgic sunday is late and cantonese! the original song that leslie covered for 'happy together' :)
perhaps the most sobering line in the song;
难道要等青春全枯萎 至得到一切
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our day will come.



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